nuff said

Elinor Dashwood - Did he tell you he loved you?

Marianne - Yes…..no. Never absolutely. It was everyday implied but never declared - Jane Austen

To all those beautiful young women out there….guard your hearts…..if a man doesn’t declare his feelings outright for a woman and before others one has to question as to whether his affectations were ever there or sincere. Women cannot be expected to wait around forever in the hope of a mere glimpse of vague assumptions of “love” with no commitment….and when the subject of commitment is broached with the man…..the hands go up and say “no serious relationships”….then I say….men should not assume that they have “ownership” over us and be offended if we suddenly realize we have been played and that we move on because we come to the realization that we are worth more than being just a decoration on an arm when it suits!!! So when one gets a call to say “its over” from the guy who wouldn’t commit one gets a little confused and says “but there was never anything spoken of being together”

Manipulation, sulking, lack of compliments, looking at other women whilst in our company, making statements like “I’m single” in your presence, or “do I have to walk you to the door” and bullying us into submission is just another form of emotional abuse and we must never allow ourselves to become victims…..If we are treated like Princesses then we will honor the Prince who deserves our attention…..that lends itself into another blog…….to avoid being uncertain if “he is just not into you” and how to tell….but that is another topic……..main thing is young women….GUARD YOUR HEARTS and learn to be cautious and discerning and nip it in the bud if things are going nowhere….that way you will save yourself a lot of heartache……Just remember….you shouldn’t have to be a casualty of his issues…..(this is not directed at any one person…but a generalization of what does go down in real life)